Every year 6th February is celebrated all over the world as international day of zero tolerance for female Genital mutilation.
The female genital mutilation is a bad practice comprises all procedures that involve altering or injuring the female genital for non-medical reasons and is recognized internationally as a violation of the human rights of girls and women.
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Types of FGM
The World Health Organization has classified FGM into four different types :
TYPE I – Clitoridectomy
Partial or total removal of the clitoris (a small, sensitive and erectile part of the female genitals) and /or the prepuce (the clitoral hood or fold of skin surrounding the clitoris)
TYPE II – Excision
Partial or total removal of the clitoris and the inner labia, with or without excision of the outer labia (the labia are the ‘lips’ that surround the vagina).
TYPE III – Infibulation
Narrowing of the vaginal opening by creating a covering seal. The seal formed by cutting and repositioning the inner or outer labia, with or without removal of the clitoris.
TYPE IV – Other
All other harmful procedures to the female genitalia for non-medical purposes. E.g., pricking, piercing, incising, scrapping and cauterizing (burning) the genital area.
According to United Nations currently the data related to FGM are terrible and should be stopped.
Some key facts about FGM sourced from UN are below:
At least 200 million girls & women alive globally undergone some form of FGM.
If current trends continue, 15 million additional girls between ages 15 to 19 be subjected to it by 2030.
Highest percentage of FGM in girls of age 14 are in Gambia 56% , Mauritania 54%.
In Indonesia where half of girls aged 11 and younger have undergone the practice.
Countries with the highest rate of FGM among girls and women aged 15 to 49 are Somalia 98% , Guinea 97% and Djibouti 93%.
FGM is mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15.
This practice is very painful, cause severe bleeding and health issues including cysts, infections, infertility as well as complications in child birth increased risk of new born deaths.
In India, 75% of FGM cases in Bohra Muslim community as per some independent researchers but government denied it and claim that no evidence of FGM in India.
Eradication of female genital mutilation by 2030 is a United Nations sustainability target.
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Movement against FGM
The WeSpeakOut campaign (Masooma Ranalvi started it) was established as a platform for survivors of FGM and gained momentum after the conviction of three Bohras accused of FGM in Australia, in 2015.
As a result, groups from countries which have anti-FGM laws, including the UK and US , issued notices instructing their followers not to perform “Khafd” – the Arabic term for female genital cutting .
A women named Insia Dariwala founded an organization called “Sahiyo” with four other women.
The women Insia’s older sister Fatema experienced this horrifying practice and this led to her to found this organization. She avoided FGM because her mother stood up against the cruel practice when she discovered what had happened to Fatema her oldest daughter.
The Quran, the holy book of Islam, does not mention it. However, the Daim al-Islam, a religious text that the Bohra community follows does endorse this practice.
Indian cinema also portrayed this cruel practice in one of the documentaries directed by Priya Goswami titled “A pinch of Skin”
Also, a short film name “CUT” shows about the “FGM” in African countries.
Terminology “Khafz” Vs “FGM”
In support of this cruel practice most of the religious priest differentiate Khafz from FGM . They believe that Khafz is a religious ceremony and it is practicing for the last 1400 years , and it is a harmless procedure involves a nick on the prepuce. During Khafz, the clitoris is not touched at all, and in fact, great care is taken by trained nurses, practitioners & doctors to ensure safety at all levels. But most testimonials state that the procedure is carried out by untrained peoples.
But WHO gives a unifying definition of FGM that covers slightest nick to the most severe form of mutilation of the female genital. So it is clear that in any of the form this practice of cutting female genital comes under the cruelty act against girl and women and violation of their Rights.
This year United Nations commemorate the 12th anniversary of the “International day of the zero tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation” and the theme of this year is “Partnership with Men and Boys to Transform Social and Gender Norms to End Female Genital Mutilation”.
UNICEF calls on the global community to partner with men and boys and foster their engagement to accelerate the elimination of this harmful practice and uplift the voices of women and girls.
Hope that with continuous effort of social service communities , Government and men and boys definitely will eradicate this cruel practice from the world.
The community or group of person showing different level of attraction other than male and female gender is covered under LGBTQIA+ community.
We explain the following community in brief here:-
1. Alphabet “L” stands for Lesbian means a women emotionally, romantically, or sexually attracted to other women.
2. Alphabet “G” stands for Gay i.e. the men attracted to other men, they have no interest in women.
3. Alphabet “B” stands for Bisexual means that persons attracted to more than one gender.
4. Alphabet “T” stands for Transgender means that a person whose gender identity or gender expression does not corresponds to their sex assigned at birth.
5. Alphabet “Q” stands for Queer
means all non-heterosexual people.
6. Alphabet “I” stands for Intersection means people born with differences in their sex traits and reproductive anatomy.
7.Alphabet “A” stands for Asexual means people are those who lack a sexual attraction or interests in others.
The symbol “+” here stands for members of the community who identify with a sexual orientation or gender identity that is not included within the above all categories.
Rainbow : The most recognizable symbol that represents the LGBTQ community today is the rainbow.
Spread across the flags, banners, posters & display boards , the Rainbow symbolizes the diversity of gays and lesbians around the world.
The Rainbow which designated LGBTQ community was first designed by “Gilbert Baker” in the year 1978.
The original Rainbow has the eight colours representing the following different things shows the dignity & pride to them
Flirting means a way of showing romantic, love or sexual interest in someone.
Flirting can be done through gestures, words, body language and other form of communication.
Flirting should be fun and playful, not aggressive, or compelling. Both should respect each other feelings and interest.
If a male flirting to a lady, he should be about making a genuine connection with her not just trying to get what he wants. He should be sincere in his words and actions and be open and honest about his feelings.
Here we are giving few tips of flirting:
1. Start with Small Talk:
Most of the time people get very nervous and tense, so they can start with a small talk and work his way up to more personal conversation. Ask about his/her family and relatives.
OUTDOOR DATING
2.Find common Interests:
Try to find the things which are common with the other person, which lead a path of success to know each other and involve in a healthy relationship.
3. Be Positive in Attitude:
A positive attitude led to success in good relationship with right person. If one approach to other with confidence and a good attitude, will be more likely to attract the right person.
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4. Use Body Language:
Use body language by maintaining eye contact, smiling, and leaning forward when talking to someone.
5. Be a good conversationalist:
Always talk about the things which he/she is taking interest. Use the soft words like my baby, my hubby, my love etc. in their communication.
Do not argue on any conflicting issue or subject this only lose trust on each other.
6. Flirting with Touching:
After dating more than 3-4 times and now you think that the person has some believe in you then soft and light touching of his/her arm or hand can be done.
7. Use sense of humor:
A good sense of humor is very helpful in responsive flirting and help in making a connection with someone. Try making a playful joke or funny story to proof that you have a good sense of humor.
8. Pay attention to his/her signals:
Pay attention that how your boy/girl friend to your flirting and try to read his/her body language and verbal cues. If he/she seems uncomfortable or disinterested, it might be time to back off.
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9. Practice More:
Flirting is a skill that can be improved with practice, so do not be afraid to put yourself out there and try new things and experiment new ways of flirting.
10. Use social media as tool for Flirting:
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Use social medial platforms like Instagram, Twitter, Facebook etc. to connect with people of interest for flirting.
Always to be respectful and considerate during interaction with people at social media.
11. Open to Rejection:
Be ready to be get rejected, while flirting other. It is a natural process that someone may be consider you or not. Don’t take it personally if someone rejected you, and try to move on to other potential partners.
word coined for a Man who provide services like sexual favors, accompany with women at parties, vacations, and social & cultural events in exchange for handsome money.
In broad definition a Gigolo to be paid to provide a range of services including conversation, dancing, and acting in private parties organized by single women or group of women.
The profession of Gigolo is not acceptable & termed as an illegal act in Indian society but in some western countries his profession given a legal status and under license, they are free to perform their job.
In today society hiring the services of Gigolo in fashion. High profile women for pleasure and new experience hired Gigolo services through social media or some agencies which are totally operated covertly.
Most of the unemployed youth turned to become “Gigolo” as this profession (Illegal in nature) provide them handsome amount.
These male escort have handsome physique and attractive body with good communication.
As per the recent researches the clientele of these male escorts are mostly married women, divorcee, widow & single college going girls.
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All above categories of girls and women have different reasons to choose the gigolo for their sexual satisfaction.
Some wants it for new experience and fun whereas others chosen for unsatisfaction with their current sexual life.
There are some registered and unregistered agencies also who provide male escorts or Gigolo to all over India clients as per their need.
Some are the registered name are “Gigolo India Private Limited”, “Sduko India” , “Gigoloclubin” , “Gigolomania” “oklute” etc.
These agencies provide services under different name like social network Male Escort job, Gigolo service, Play boy service, Call boy service etc.
Tunisha Sharma a name of glamorous and emerging Indian television and film actress born in Chandigarh on 4th January 2002.
At a nascent age of 20 years, she committed suicide on the set of television serial “ALI BABA: DASTAAN – E – KABUL” in the lady’s washroom at Maharastra’s Palghar.
Her co star and lover Sheezan Mohammad Khan arrested by police after her mother filed a case against him.
According to the police and co-stars, Tunisha had lunch with Khan at the studio and later locked herself in the make-up room. The crew members knocked on the door of the make-up room but she did not open the door. Crew members then broke open the door and found her hanging from the ceiling.
Dr. Honey Mittal of the F&B Hospital in his statement told that on Saturday evening, about 3-4 people arrived at the hospital with Tunisha Sharma. Her co-actor Sheezan Khan was also with them and he told him to save her anyhow. He was crying continuously.
Tunisha was brought dead at the hospital confirmed by Dr. Honey to the police.
Sheezan M Khan and Tunisha Sharma broke up in November 2022, leading Sharma to fall into depression.
Also her mother said that Sheezan provoked her to commit suicide. They had an affair, but he denied marrying her, which is why she was in depression. He (Sheezan) admitted that they were in a relationship. They had a breakup in November, but they continued working on the set.”
Images from Tunisha Instagram
Some famous personalities tweeted just about the suicide news out of innocent actress.
Kamal R Khan Tweeted …. I cannot understand, how can a girl manage to hang herself in a small bathroom on the set? Proper investigation should be done. #Tunisha Sharma
Mukesh Khanna Tweeted…. Parents should not send kids at such an early age to work, says “har khan love jihad nahi karta”
Tasleema Nasreen Tweeted… Tunisha Sharma committed suicide because Shezaan Khan did not marry her. Now he is blamed for not marrying her. If he married her, then he would have been blamed for marrying her.
Actor Karan Kundra Tweeted… Shocking and extremely sad ..such a young and promising life gone too soon. I pray to God to give her loved ones strength #TunishaSharma Om Shanti it’s my request to everyone : ther’s always light at the end of a dark tunnel never forget”
Singer & comedian Sugandha Mishra Tweeted.. “#Tunisha Sharma shocking and heart wrenching this unfortunate news of a young talented beautiful soul gone too soon.. prayers , strength to her family and loved ones #RIP Tunisha Sharma”
